How To Revive A Relationship
Been in a relationship for so long that you have forgotten the feel of the butterflies in your stomach which you had in the beginning? Or the hitch in your breath when they hug you from behind cause you have got used to it by now ?Often getting into arguments that would have been solved within seconds if one were to listen to the other with patience ..Or do you feel your partner is not in love with you as they were before .
Here we are to help you to revive your relationship and give you access to better your love life .
The starting of the relationships will mostly be like soft petals because we don’t express ourselves shelves full fledged but as the days goes by we become more and more comfortable and start to be ourselves. And as the days go on we at times stop putting efforts or show full involvement like we were in the beginning of the relationship because we knew that the other person is ours full heartedly but often we forget that it’s effort and patience that will keep them for life long. In the rush of daily life we forget to maintain the love . Love is like a plant , it flourishes with basic necessities like water , sunlight , carbon dioxide and manures where as in the case of love it’s prioritizing them , showering them with love , trusting them wholeheartedly and investing efforts for it to grow.
And at a point of time we tend to forget it in the rush of life and when we reach our destination alone because we have lost our someone special because we were too self oriented to take a look back to notice if they are with us or not.
But for you to avoid such mistakes here we are, with Blind Meet that provide you with certain ideas and tips to keep your love life alive and fresh .
Priority plays the prominent role in any subject of matter. Priority helps us to differentiate what we want from what we need to sustain. And when you find yourself a person whom you need and even they feel the same it’s high time you make them your priority and hold on to them. Prioritize them and be clear with what’s happening with your life to them. And if you are busy instead of neglecting their calls and messages try to send a text that you are busy so they don’t feel avoided or insecure.
Recreate moments !
Been too long in a relationship that you have forgotten that adrenaline rush the moment you first held their hands or the loud Tuk Tuk of your heart when you both first hugged !Ask your partner on a date instead of thinking that it’s been too long that dated are not needed to get to know about one another anymore !..
Take a paper and write down asking “will you go on a date?” Like it’s your first time ever going on a date with them ! And just see that blooming smile and the flushed cheek of your partner which made you fall in love with them over time . Or cook them their favorite food and design them with simple emojis like a heart or a smiling face and that could make them feel so special and make them understand that you are thinking about them.
Travel to places !
Solo travelling can be good for the soul but traveling with your soulmate can make the relationship much stronger and healthier. Travelling refreshes your mind and soul inducing happy endorphins making you believe you are happy and carefree . Over the years you would have understood your partner better but over the period of time getting bored by the same routine can be tiresome but this shouldn’t become a block to your love life. Destroy the block , take your loved one to places where you feel new and energized and more in love.
Cause emotions may be for a temporary period but love is too precious that once it gets cracked it’s hard to fix so don’t let the temporary emotions get the better out of you . Take time to go to new places and live the moments with your loved ones .
Efforts and time:
Understand the situation of your loved ones. They may be busy in creating a better life for you both while you may be missing them terribly but this is the time you should be there for them through thick and thin. While they are working hard over there it’s your duty to make them feel loved even in the short span of time they get to take a break. This is where we stop demanding time from them and give them more time from your side and make them feel loved and appreciated .If you find them working late nights go over to them with a cup of coffee and have a small chat and make sure you are proud of them and the efforts they are putting in to secure your both futures . That will make them feel loved and secured.
What more than feeling loved and secure by the person we love. ?
There will be times when you both are against something the other one is saying , instead of bawling your eyes out hear one another and try to understand why the person is saying so . And after listening to come to the conclusion which would suffice both the people .
Cause small small arguments has the power to brew into huge volcanoes that could burst at any moment . Remember before arguing that the moment of fight maybe for a few minutes but the consequences of your words are for a lifetime.
Patience is the key to any successful life. If your partner is going through a hard time due to a loved one’s loss or they have not gotten some for which they have worked so hard lend them your shoulder to cry on and at times they maybe hysterical and other times insensitive but remember it’s just a phase and they need someone to hold them from falling apart and when you leave them during this time it will break them apart and destroy the ideas they have about love but …that is ..if you stayed and helped them to overcome their tough times that could make them believe you have their back and they are not alone in this fight of theirs and that could prove them true love does exist.
It’s okay to set your ego aside and ask your partner sorry !. Even though it could deflate your ego the love they have for you will gradually inflate when they know that you are ready to set your ego aside and make this relationship work. And that could make them realize the mistakes they have made and help them to correct it in the mere future. The word Sorry has the power to destroy a relationship when not said and has the power to make it 100x stronger when said at the right time. Set your ego aside for your loved ones. Cause it’s easy to utter those words and live a live regretting without them.
I hope the above words are useful to revive your love life in this world of casual flings and friends with benefits system it’s hard to find true love so why let your fairy tale die because of temporary problems !